1 <el-checkbox v-model="checkAll" @change="handleCheckAllChange">全选</el-checkbox>
2 <el-checkbox v-for="(city,i) in cities" :label="city.uuid" :key="i" v-model="city.relation"
3    @change="handleCheckedCitiesChange">{{city.customerName}}</el-checkbox>
5                     
6 <span slot="footer" class="dialog-footer">
7    <el-button type="primary" :disabled="disabled" @click="classifyConfirm">确定</el-button>
8    <el-button type="primary" @click="calceConfirn">取消</el-button>
9 </span>

 1  data: function () {
 2     return { 3         checkAll: false,
 4         cities: [], //数据源
 5　　　}
 6　}
　　　　　　

 1 handleCheckAllChange(val) {
 2    if (this.checkAll) {
 3        this.cities.forEach(item => {
 4             item.relation = true   //只改变数据的状态
 5          })
 6      } else {
 7       this.cities.forEach(item => {
 8           item.relation = false
 9             })
10           }
11       },
12 handleCheckedCitiesChange() {
13   console.log(this.checkedCities);
14   if (this.checkedCities.length == this.cities.length) {
15   this.checkAll = true
16     } else {
17       this.checkAll = false
18    }
19 },

 1 //确认
 2             classifyConfirm() {
 3                 var checkedAll = [];
 4                 this.cities.forEach(item => {
 5                     if(item.relation == true){
 6                         checkedAll.push(item.uuid)   //确认的时候取状态为true的值，并把要用的字段取出来
 7                     }
 8                 })
 9                 // var checkedAll = [...new Set(this.checkedCities)] //数组去重
10                 var that = this;
11                 var data = {
12                     "customerUuid":that.customerUuid,
13                     "projectCustomerUuid":checkedAll.join(\',\')
14                 };
15                 console.log(checkedAll)
16                 this.classLoading = true;
17                 $.ajax({
18                     url: Domain + \'/xxxxx\',
19                     dataType: "json",
20                     method: "POST",
21                     // contentType: "application/json; charset=utf-8",
22                     data:data,
23                     success: function (ret) {
24                         if (ret.retStatus == "1") {
25                             that.$message({
26                                 type: \'success\',
27                                 message: \'保存成功!\'
28                             });
29                             that.classLoading = false;32                         }
33                     }
34                 })
35             },

最开始在改变状态的时候就想着取id了，导致后面一系列的问题，后面经过大佬的提醒，在最开始的时候不要取值，只改变状态就行，最后提交的时候遍历数组,然后把每一项里面为true的取出来就可以了，很简单就解决了

或者html 这样写也可以：

<el-checkbox :indeterminate=”roleIsIndeterminate” v-model=”roleCheckAll” @change=”handleRoleAllChange” :disabled=”isAllChecked || onlyAllDisabled”>全选</el-checkbox>
<el-checkbox-group v-model=”checkedRoles” @change=”handleCheckedRolesChange”>
<el-checkbox v-for=”role in roleList” :label=”role.id” :key=”role.id” :disabled=”role.disabled”>{{role.name}}</el-checkbox>
</el-checkbox-group>